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The 200 guests at Rachel Mumford’s backyard wedding in Malibu, Calif., were suddenly on their feet, clapping, giving her an unexpected ovation. Forty-eight hours earlier, she probably wouldn’t have felt as calm or confident.
The handwritten pages of vows she had in her relaxed grip were now a “structured, organized, funny, intimate and condensed version of our love story,” said Ms. Mumford, 53, who married Brandon Coxton at their home on July 3, 2022. “I wanted my vows to be real, personal and intimate.”
She managed to check off all three boxes after hiring Brian Franklin, a founder of Vows & Speeches, a writing service for wedding participants that he started with his wife, Nicole Franklin, in 2021.
In this episode of the Wedding Day Podcast, hosts Sonja Babich and Amanda Holder, Publisher of California Wedding Day, sit down with Brian Franklin, founder of Vows & Speeches. Based in California, Brian is redefining how couples approach vows, speeches and ceremony scripts by offering writing and coaching services that elevate the emotional heart of […]
Brian joins Leah to discuss his insights and advice on writing wedding vows and speeches. They highlight the common pitfalls in vow writing and how to avoid them, as well as the impact that generative AI, like ChatGPT, has on wedding speeches. You can also watch it here: Full: https://youtu.be/EaB-Wv4TUGk?si=TrOJDK5hARKFdzPF To hear the podcast, click here.
Vows & Speeches helped their clients Matthew & Graeme craft their vows and the ceremony to match the beauty of this incredible wedding by Tyler Speier events. “The couple worked with Brian from Vows and Speeches to help them practice the vows they wrote for each other and to help their officiant, who was their close friend, feel confident […]
Brian Franklin from Vows & Speeches provides expert advice on how the bride’s wedding speech situation could have been avoided with some guidance, and other tips for anyone giving a reception speech. To read the article, click here.
As speechwriters for weddings and other events, we’ve helped write a lot of wedding vows. While there’s no substitute for working with a professional, where you’ll get help with both the writing and the delivery of them, here are five key elements that will help you make the most out of these moments.
Unsure about doing your own vows, or doing them in public? Here’s why you should why it’s important to not do them privately.
Brian Franklin of Vows & Speeches appears on the DJ Insider Podcast giving tips on how not to ruin big moments at a wedding.
“Today’s episode is all about one of the most personal—and sometimes nerve-wracking—parts of a wedding: the vows and speeches. Writing your own vows can feel overwhelming, and giving a toast in front of a room full of people? Well, let’s just say it’s not everyone’s idea of fun. But don’t worry! Our guest today is […]
“Former political consultant Brian Franklin is co-founder of Vows & Speeches, a Los Angeles-based company that helps customize just that: Wedding vows, and speeches for nuptials and other events. “When it comes to the reception speeches and toasts, it’s critically important that couples instruct those speaking not to mention or joke about politics, politicians or controversial subjects,” he […]
“When we’re interviewing people, we’re looking for that story or aspect that has a comic angle but won’t be something that brings up a sore subject or could be potentially embarrassing. It’s important to make sure that the humor doesn’t create discomfort or damage — and ultimately is connected to some point about the health of your […]
“Talking about hobbies within the ceremonies and/or vows can be a lot of fun. Whether it’s poking light fun at the weird collections they have or showing appreciation for their musical talents… bringing hobbies up gives these moments a unique and personal spin that makes everything more interesting and memorable.”
Brian Franklin, cofounder of Vows & Speeches, a professional wedding speech and vow writing service, shares his expert tips on crafting a memorable and sincere toast.
Practice your vows out loud as many times as you can. You don’t need to memorize it, but it will help you both with delivery and to avoid choking up (too much). To read the rest of the article, click here.
Practice your vows out loud as many times as you can. You don’t need to memorize it, but it will help you both with delivery and to avoid choking up (too much).
As for who gets to speak, Brian Franklin of Vows & Speeches urges couples to select people in advance and limit toasts to approved speakers. “Whatever you do, never, ever make it an open mic,” he says. “You can easily lose control of the evening that way.”
Why Hiring a Speech Writer Might Save Your WeddingNot everyone is comfortable writing their own wedding vows, and that’s okay. For those who don’t deem themselves wordsmiths or need a little coaching on how to put together a great Best Man speech, this episode is for you! Our host, Jennifer Stein, is joined by Brian […]
For those that don’t know how to write a best man/maid of honor/father or mother of the bride speech…
In recent years, social media has helped increase demand in this new wedding vendor category. “Vows have gone viral,” one expert said, “and there’s greater attention to the moments that go wrong.” To read the rest of the article – in which The New York Times calls Brian “The Humorist”, click here.
Writing your wedding vows can be a tremendous undertaking. Find the right words to say in the right way, and in your voice, with help from experts, Brian and Nicole Franklin.
Being selected as a maid of honor in a friend or family member’s wedding is a high prestige, but it can easily become a daunting task — especially when writing a speech for the reception. We asked several wedding industry experts for their best tips to ease your stress while creating a heartfelt tribute to […]
If you’ve spent any amount of time on TikTok or Instagram, you know that wedding speeches go viral so fast, whether it’s because they were really good or…not so good. And we don’t want that!
The promises you make to your partner on your wedding day are one of the most important aspects of the entire celebration. If you’ve decided to write your own vows, as opposed to exchanging traditional wedding vows or religious wedding vows, knowing exactly what to say can feel like a big challenge.
We reached out to experts from across the globe in this $300-billion destination and luxury wedding industry to share tips and tricks to make your wedding planning process a breeze.
Have you been asked to write a speech for a loved one’s wedding? Consider it an honor! As couples plan their weddings, choosing VIP guests to have a role on their big day is one of the most meaningful steps.
It’s pretty clear now: artificial intelligence is here to stay. We’re seeing a new wave of technological advancement that is becoming more and more a part of our everyday lives. But can AI be useful when planning your wedding? We asked top wedding experts for their thoughts.
Interview with Brian Franklin, the Co-Founder of Vows and Speeches where they do just that… help others write what is on their heart. Finally, Brian has all the juicy stories to share with us!
From tips to know to examples you can copy.
We spoke with wedding experts to discuss three popular ceremony styles — legal, symbolic, and religious — and weigh the pros and cons of each. Keep reading to learn the intricacies of each ceremony style — and figure out which one may be right for you.
It is one of the most critical moments of the wedding day…saying your vows. But most of us could be better writers, so why not hire someone?
Did you get engaged recently? Let us add to the chorus of congratulations! You’ve started a new chapter and are over the moon as you and your partner begin planning your dream wedding.
Whether you’re the one getting married or a member of the wedding party, The Knot has you covered. What’s more, we’ve reached out to various wedding pros—planners, photographers and more—to uncover the best things for you to do on the morning of the wedding.
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Writing your wedding vows can be a tremendous undertaking. Find the right words to say in the right way, and in your voice, with help from experts, Brian and Nicole Franklin
A chat with political speech writer turned wedding speech guru Brian Franklin about preparing for the mic time for weddings. Brian gives us a peek on how he works with couples to give them confidence from the heart.
A new year brings new wedding trends! While couples tying the knot in 2023 surely have their Pinterest boards filled with inspiration, there’s plenty more on the horizon to keep things fresh as we approach a new wedding season.
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From joyous tears shared during family dances to belly laughs echoed throughout toasts, weddings are filled with emotions. But for the couple, there’s one sentimental moment that stands out from the rest: the exchange of vows at the ceremony right before the marriage is made official.
If ever there was a problem needing a solution, this is it. Brian helps couples write better, more personal vows, their parents and friends write better speeches and their officiant write a better ceremony.
Listen as Brian Franklin, Co-Founder of Vows and Speeches, joins Eddie Babbage, CEO & Founder of Timeline Genius, to talk about custom-made vows, speeches/toasts, and ceremony scripts.
As couples embark on their fun and exciting journey to the aisle, they’re often struck with the realization that weddings don’t come cheap. While you can certainly pull off a low-budget celebration, it typically comes with a fair share of headaches and stress…
It is not easy trying to put emotions into writing, especially when you know that writing will be spoken in front of a crowd of people.
Come in prepared. Know what you’re going to say and how it’s going to start and end. There is nothing worse than listening to someone figure out their presentation on the fly and just rambling without a cohesive point.
In this guide to officiating your friend’s wedding, we’ll discuss how to get ordained, your roles and responsibilities, and how to start preparing for your loved one’s special day.
When your wedding day draws near, the last thing you want is to find yourself buried under a pile of last-minute to-dos. Fortunately, with a bit of forethought, you can spend your wedding week ticking off the final (minor!) boxes on your months-long to-do list.
When planning a wedding day schedule, there are a lot of obvious things to consider — the ceremony, family formals, cocktail hour, and the reception. But with all the frenzy over these big events, many couples forget to make time for smaller (but important!) events.
Our vows were a total home run!
"We both surprised each other with how heartfelt and funny/cute they were and everyone loved them. We got so many compliments and people said they were the best vows they’ve ever heard!”